Good News Friday #42: The First Straw

Well, we’ve nearly done it. We’ve got through the first week of our new routine with my two long commutes and a different work pattern. It hasn’t been especially easy, at times, not least because nursery called on Wednesday (when I was 65 miles away) to say Boo needed to go home as he had been vomiting. There was nothing wrong with him. His anti-seizure medicine makes him a bit nauseous and if he eats too close to having it (they gave him a second breakfast without telling me they were going to do that), he spits up. They still excluded him for 2 days even though there is nothing wrong with him and dealing with that has been difficult. But we coped and having had a rough start means we know that we can deal with things when they don’t go to plan, which is good news, in a perverse kind of way, I guess.

But I won’t say it’s been great. Bearable mostly. But very good in places, and there have been some very, very good Boo moments that I just have to share and which have made it all so much better.

1) New sounds: We have ‘Wuhs’ and ‘Bs’ here now. And most people seem to be called ‘Bob’ (which makes a change from ‘Dad’). (‘Bob’, by the way, is not as random as it sounds. It’s a version of one of his good friends’ names at nursery). We also have had a lot of in-context ‘yeahs’ this week and Boo even showed them off to his developmental consultant on Wednesday, which proves that sometimes, at least, he is happy to play the part of performing seal.

2) Appointments part I: Our first physio appointment for a month wasn’t great. I had hoped Boo would show his physio (one of his favourite people – and mine, I might add) some new tricks. No deal. He just sobbed uncharacteristically. We had no idea what was wrong with him, except that his OT was there too. He likes his OT, so it wasn’t anything personal, but he is a stickler for routine and context and I think, in his head, she wasn’t supposed to be there and he was confused. And then she pulled bandages around his middle in an attempt to see if they improved his trunk tone. It didn’t make her any more popular with him, that’s for sure, but it did improve his trunk control and with it his arm function in quite startling ways. So we have been referred for orthotics with a view to getting Lycra garments. The funding needs to be approved first and then we go on the waiting list, but this is a very positive step, I think, for Boo.

3) Appointments part 2: Our other appointments this week (Portage and the consultant appointment) went much better. We hadn’t seen the consultant for 9 months (she’s three months behind on 6 month reviews). She is lovely. She has this wonderful knack of accentuating the positive and was full of praise for all the things Boo could do. These are some of the only appointments we have when I walk through the door and feel happier than when I’m standing outside it. And I think it the good vibes rubbed off on Boo. The appointment was at the most rotten time of the day (tea time) and he went in 30 minutes late. He was starving and grouchy. He had been sent home from nursery and (like us) couldn’t really understand why as he was perfectly well. But once he was in the consulting room, he showed off right royally, as if to repay the faith the consultant had put in him in her positive take on reading through his biblical sized file before seeing us. I was so proud.

4) The first straw: And then we went to conductive education, which Boo loves. He had a great time as usual and participated in all the activities enthusiastically, watching his older classmates show off their new sitting and crawling tricks. Boo’s not there with either of those particular skills yet, but he doesn’t like to be outdone. So at his favourite times of the session (snack and lunch time) he decided to show what he’s made of.

He’d worked hard and he was thirsty by the time juice and biscuits came out. For once, I had remembered to take with me the therapy bottle his speech and language therapist had suggested we try him with to encourage lip closure and tongue retraction (although the latter isn’t really a problem for him). I must confess, I don’t use it at every meal and haven’t got one yet for nursery. You see, the bottle has a straw in it, and learning to use a straw is tough if you’re Boo. It’s a non-collapsible straw, which helps, but it’s also not fixed in the bottle, and Boo learned in about 30 seconds that the best game in the world is not using the bottle to drink out of, but to pull the straw up to irritate Mummy.

But we keep trying. A little and often, as is our way. But I was beginning to give up after 3 months of trying. I was using it at fewer meals, keen to get fluids in him and prevent constipation. But I said last week that I would take it to conductive education this week, so I did.

Boo walked over his seat (with a ladder back chair and arm splints and a bit of help, but you know, still, he walked) and sat down. He enthusiastically chose grape juice when offered that or water by his teacher. And then we sat down to drink. I held the bottle and was in the process of asking if we could have cup of juice made up too so he could get enough liquid inside him to hydrate him for the next set of activities when the usual 3 seconds of unenthusiastic straw sucking ceased.

And then I started talking to Boo and one of the other children before absent-mindedly saying ‘Gosh, Boo, you are a thirsty boy today, you’re wolfing that down’. What had I just said? I paused and did a double take. The liquid level had gone down an inch. An inch! And not down his front. He was sucking effectively through a straw. And it wasn’t a fluke. He did it again at lunchtime and tea time. He has learned to use a straw.

And once again, I realise that for all my research and my efforts as an amateur therapist, it’s Boo who does most of the teaching around here. It was as if he were saying don’t give up. Keep plugging away. Things will happen if you just keep trying. Noted, Boo. Noted.

OK, so those are our highlights from this week. I hope your weeks have been filled with good news. Do feel free to let me know what nice things have been happening in your worlds in the comments below. We love to hear from you!

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2 thoughts on “Good News Friday #42: The First Straw

  1. Jane

    It sounds like you have had another great week. Using a straw is fantastic news, I have been told it helps with speech, and so does blowing. We can not yet use a straw but Ethan is getting the hang of blowing. Isn’t it funny how they always show us these new skills when we aren’t expecting it. A true superstar!

    Thanks for linking up with Small Steps Amazing Achievements :0)
    x

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